Thursday, November 10, 2005

Why do guys give girl's name to their cars and instruments?

About half a year ago, I asked people on my msn list this question:
“Why do guys give cars and instruments girls’ name?”
It is really interesting to see the different point of view people have in regard to this question. What’s your point of view?

Answers:
Boy 1
uh, because the items are usually thought of as females...even females give female names to their stuff

Girl 1
hahahahha cuz it's be weird if they were guy's names cuz guys love their cars and instruments and take good care of them...... they love them like they would or rather *should* girls?? hahahaha.

Girl 2
haha idunno.. cause they looove em? like they looove girls?

Girl 3
ummm i don't know. cause they want to name it but naming it a guy's name it's kinda gay?

Boy 2
if u prize ur car so much u dont wnana call him bob…i love you
bob


Girl 4
maybe they like calling smthing "theirs"?

Boy 3
coz a guy doesn't want to be playing a male instrument, running his hands all over the thing

Me:
does it apply to cars?


Boy 3: i dont' want to be riding/driving a guy

Boy 4
umm... not sure... i know historically they've named boats after females, or rather call her 'she'…hmm... and saying he's beautiful just sounds funny


Boy 5
errrrrrrrrrrr, they love it, hahahahaha

Girl 5
cuz it gives them excuse to use the word "love" without feeling gay,so like "I love nancy my car". A guy can't say "I love bob my car"

Boy 6
mmm.... i guess cuz they started the trend w/ ships way back. The idea was that a ship had a sense of grace and beauty which they associated w/ women

Boy 7
guys usually give their cars and guitars guy names yo

me:
really, i think they give them girls name, maybe it is a montreal things that they give them guys name

Boy 7:
no man i think most guys give their guitars and cars guys names… maybe it's different on the Westside


Girl 6
umm.. cause they no woman in their life so they are desprite and want one, ta da, someone to call my own, my BABY.

Girl 7
i dunno... maybe they think of those inanimate objects as their girlfriends? or something like that

Girl 8
hahahaha..cause it's supposed to be their "girlfriends"

Girl 9
it's true they do.. perhaps it's because in today's secular society women are treated as objects just like cars and instruments?!?

Girl 10
um.... haha.. what is this for? i am guessing maybe cuz guys love their cars and instruments, so they can relate better to them if given a girl's name... can you "love" something that has a guy's name if you were a guy?

Girl 11
because it seems less gay? it's a love thing right? Most straight guys love their tools and girls...lol. personally i think it's sexist...but i guess i would give my guitar a girl's name or a unisex one.

Girl 12
because they value them

Girl 13
i'm guessing cuz they're you babies and you take care of them and spend lots of time with them. it's like pouring all the affection you normally would on a girl to an object and pretending it's a girl...but if you think about it that way, it's kinda disturbing!

Girl 14
i think think many guys think of their cars/instrument as a companian, hence a girl name but then if that's true, what about guys who name MANY of their things girl names?

Me: ah, that a good answer, er....i think those guys are loney and need to find someone special

Girl 14: do they subconsiously desire multiple girlfiends/wives?

Me:
er...no idon't think so, that would be wrong


Girl 14:
from a Christian stand point yes, but there are plenty of men who "bao 2 lie" out there. I think traditionally tho, many objects are given female names because women, like land or equipment, fall under the category of "properties" for men. and this naming ritual is almost a demonstration of ownership. Sad, but true in the old days...or still true in many places in the world


Me:
it is sad, i thought it all started with nameing boats b/c of their grace and beauty


Girl 14:
but what about calling your ancesteral homeland "motherland"? In that case, i think it's given a femininity because it represents something that nurtures, protects and sustain, so i think all together, this represents a mixture of types of relationships men can have with women. The mother is a figure that will always protect, care, and love. a wife is, for some guys, a companion and a partner. but for some others, women are just something men "own"

1 comment:

Unknown said...

In tough times a true friend ( male or female) has your back. A guy friend, for the most part, doesn't care about you financially or wrist you look like. He's the guy next to you in the battlefield. No #ConflictOfInterest .. just staying alive. Your average female has many, for a good reason. #AsenseOfSecurity
My car will never have a Female name. .sorry